To keep the feedback anonymous, MeQ can only permit filtering on Gender or Relationship if there are at least 2 people in the category selected (e.g. female) and at least 2 in the category which was not selected (e.g. male). Filtering is a ‘nice to have’ feature but is not essential to the value you get from the process. We don’t inform users about the filtering feature when they are selecting their people as it may cause them to include people to provide feedback that would not have been their first choice.